You encroached on a married woman, and it's the same old story. Husband doesn't understand her, she's afraid to leave, she wants to be with you, but for some reason, and none that is realistic, she's still married to him, and even stays with him while telling you that they're not sleeping together.
When you enter a relationship with a married person it rarely ends with you winning the love of your life. In fact, most times they stay with their spouse because you were just a distraction.
You're hearing her side of the story. Have you ever heard his? I bet he'd tell an entirely different tale of his married life. After all, she's the one that's cheating. He wants to make the marriage work. Are you sure that she's telling you the truth? What she's telling you don't ring true.
The best advice I can give you is to find someone that's available, and leave the married women alone. You can't love someone that's not available without having your heart broken.
I doubt that's what you want to hear, but it's the best advice anyone can offer you. Your only other option is to sit around and wait for her to get a divorce that may never happen. If it hasn't happened yet, then why would it?
Are you willing to give up your life, give up finding someone to share you life with, while this woman has her husband, her son, and you on the side?
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