Originally Posted by
lisa1471
But karma been hit me.It has already happened to me.I don't want his wife to find out.I'm in love with him now so I'm ending it.
But according to your other thread your husband was cheating for a little over a year. You've been having this affair for 2 years, according to you.
So my question is, did you start this affair while you were still married?
It really doesn't matter, two wrongs don't make a right, but still, no matter what, you're far from innocent. Your marriage was ruined by an affair, and now you're ruining a marriage due to an affair.
It's very hard to feel any sympathy for you seeing as you're willing to do to another woman what was done to you.
Leaving him is a good idea. A better idea would have been to never begin the relationship at all. Too late for that, and I doubt that the wife will ever treat you kindly. You're lucky she's not coming after you physically. I wouldn't stop at dirty looks, and the dirty looks are the very least you deserve, don't you think?