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ali_mohamed · Mar 22, 2012, 07:15 AM

Aslam o alikum
I am planing to marry in girl who had very dark past as she took OTH over quran 3 times , 2 times in front of her xboyfriend because of me and 1 time because of him as that time I was not aware of her physical relationship with any one else. Now she is so much ashmed of her sins and we want to overcome with Islamic solution as she is not feeling wel now a days . So please advice can I marry that girl ? If yes than please revert me back with a solution . Your ans may change to lives... Jazak ALLAH khair

marjorieobryan · Mar 22, 2012, 09:12 AM

If you really love the girl then you should marry her. Its all about love and compromise, if you think she can start a new and clean life with you then go for your happiness... Goodluck!

Stellaw · Mar 23, 2012, 07:37 PM

If I were in your shoes, I'd ask for God's(Allah) guidance in making your decision. Remember that whatever she had done before whether if it's good or bad, makes her who she is today. Not only she deserves second chance in finding who she really is but all of us.. Putting God or Allah as center of everything make things a lot easier. And ask yourself if you do love her. If yes, then marry her.

jenniepepsi · Mar 24, 2012, 08:07 PM

Assalamu Alaikum!

Her sins are her own. And she will answer for them. And that is between her and Allah. He is ever forgiving.

If this marriage is to your approval, and her approval, and your families agree, then marry. Allah wants his children happy. And we are ALL imperfect in his eyes. But he loves us anyway.

If your family or her family has a problem with it, come together, and pray together. You will find an answer Insha Allah.