[Cat1864]

Was your child with her? You mention having a six year old child in a post in another thread. If he was, do you think she would take a chance on him/her seeing or hearing something he/she shouldn't?

How did you ask what was going on? Did you flat out accuse her of being unfaithful? Did you put her on the defensive?

Quite frankly, I think this episode coupled with her concern that you might be gay (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...er-645340.html) is a good reason to seek professional help. I think marriage counseling or separating may be your only choices.

Why has she stayed? Did she find the site after or about the time she became pregnant? Is she staying because of you six year old child?

I notice that you seem to have issues with her and women in general when it comes to sex after marriage. I have read your posts and have to wonder just what attitude she sees. I think you both need to look into marriage counseling and see if there is a way to start working together instead of pulling each other apart.

Your child deserves to grow up in a loving environment and honestly I am not certain that is what you and your wife have created.

I sincerely hope everything works out for the best for all of you.

[talaniman]

Editors Note: The questions posted have been merged together for a complete story, so sorry if your answers to one or more has been edited, merged or deleted.

I think you face the fact that its time to get your ducks in a row, get a lawyer, and make a plan to divorce this female.

[jerrycc]

Well , we do talk about it. She won't say why she won't. I romance her, she stays home, I give her anything she wants, she says I am wonderful in bed ( the best she ever had), I clean the house do dishes , laundry... all that stuff. I give her massages not expecting sex etc. Guess what? Caught her with another man. The lying whore was caught. Now I know why. She likes bad boys who crap on women. Our poor 7 yr. old.