[kdpn123]

Hey guys
I'm in a relationship since 4 and a half years, and it's a long distance relationship. It was all good till now, but now since last 6 months, my boyfriend is changed. He doesn't have 10 minutes to gimme a call and talk. He just calls for 5 minutes a day. That also when I force him to. He is always busy, and whenever I yell at him, he keeps the call. He is not at all bothered how l feel. Even if I'm not well he is least bothered, he just calls for formality. We were so serious for our relationship that even our parents know, and they are OK with this. But if he is like this, how can I spend my whole life with him. Please guys do suggest me what should I do?

[Kahani Punjab]

Just talk to him, but from what you wrote about how he behaves, I tend to conclude that he is sort of fed up with you. Or, he might have been busy somewhere, or in some serious tension, worry or stress/strain himself. Sometimes, a person is in some mental problem or physical trouble, and so is involved so much in himself, that he forgets everything, but might be he does not even want to lose you and that is why he tries to contact you, whenever he gets time or so. Just wait and watch. I shall just say good luck to you.

[armydan69]

It seems to me that he has moved on.

[talaniman]

How old are you and how long have you been long distance?