[mylifebelike]

Okay so before me and my ex got together we were best friends, we spent a whole year together and what ultimately broke us up was the arguing about non important things. Not going to lie, the break up hurt and hurt me real bad,but over some time I've began to accept it. However, everyday we talk as if nothing happened. When he broke up with me he told me that he still has love for me and that he still likes me, I'm the closest person to him and that me being happy is what makes him happy. He also said that he's not finished with me yet and he doesn't want me out of his life so he wants to be my friend. & since then we've been talking everyday and flirting has definitely been present in the converstation between us. Am I wrong for thinking that he still likes me? Because this weekend we are going to the movies and we kind of had ex sex a couple of times. I personally think he just doesn't know what he wants, let me know your thoughts on what I should do. Thanks :)


Ohh! And he also said that since being together for a year, its been awhile that he's been single so he wants to know what that feels like. He just wants to talk and see who else is out there and that he probably won't have a girlfriend for a while.. What does that mean?

[odinn7]

It means he's keeping you around until he finds someone else to replace you with. Don't fool yourself, it will happen eventually. You two broke up yet you still have sex with him... think about it. Once there's someone else for him to have sex with, you won't see him anymore.

[talaniman]

I have to agree with Odin, and to put it bluntly you are a willing partner to his own selfish plan. You have accepted being promoted from best friend to girlfriend, and then accepted the demotion from romantic partner to friends with benefits.

You can end that with cutting off the benefits, and see if the friendship is still worth it. I don't think you will. Especially when its obvious with out the benefits, the friendship is false as the hope you have that keeping him in your life is worth a rats patoot. Friends don't use friends.

Things the way they are serves his needs but do they serve yours? Be honest with yourself.

[armydan69]

Odinn said it almost word for word what I was going to say, on point odinn!