[tiffxx]

My boyfriend wants to break up with me. Last night he wanted to go out with his friends and I completely understand that however I don't trust his friends. And for that matter I don't trust him around his friends because 4 months ago I found out that some girl tried to hook up with him on Facebook and he was all for it. When I asked him he said he only did it so he could hook his friend up with that girl. So naturally I asked him not to go out with his friends and it turned into a massive argument and he got all angry and wanted to break up. What should I do?

[Alty]

If he's that eager to hook up with girls on Facebook, and then makes lame excuses about it, I'd let him go. He's not worth it.

I know it's hard. You obviously care about him, but, it doesn't seem that he cares for you, or your feelings.

You can do better than this guy.

[talaniman]

Either you trust each other or you don't, either you talk and make clear expectations and rules for good acceptable behavior, or you argue and fight over every little thing that comes up.

What you don't do is stay with someone you don't trust, or cannot talk to, or try to control what they do and with who because you are afraid how they will handle things. If honest communications don't work to bring about positive changes, what's the point?

I said talk, not argue, or demand. Having said that, if he isn't willing to talk listen, and make a few adjustments for the relationship, then let the fool go! I mean why give up your dignity, and self respect?

[scratchNmyhead]

Once trust is gone its quite difficult to get back. Sounds like you have a party boy and can do better. His loss! I'd toss him out ;)