[TraceyAnn14]

Thank you so much and even if it was only my first month do you think its effective by then.. and how early should I test? Do I have to wait till my next period?

[J_9]

Yes, you have to wait to see if your next period comes.

[TraceyAnn14]

Okay and I saw that you work in the ER? Is it really unlikely that I am and how do I forget and stay worry free so stress doesn't affect me

[J_9]

I work in Labor and Delivery mostly, I do part time work in the ER. From your experience it is very unlikely that you got pregnant.

[pearl_mysty7]

If your pregnant accept it the baby will give you bundle of joy.. I also get pregnant first before I was married.. but the father of my child accept it and he propose... its really frustrating sometimes

[pearl_mysty7]

If your pregnant accept it the baby will give you bundle of joy.. I also get pregnant first before I was married.. but the father of my child accept it and he propose... its really frustrating sometimes

[TraceyAnn14]

How would I tell pregnancy symptoms from birth control side affects

[pearl_mysty7]

I'm on injectibles so I can't tell but sometimes I have pain like I'm having an ulcer and I don't have periods but have blood stains... when I'm not yet pregnant I never used control pills

[TraceyAnn14]

I am on birth control I'm a catholic.. I'm really young and can't have aa child and I have faith that god won't do thst to me

[LittleBlackKat]

Well if you're Catholic, you also have to think to yourself and bring yourself to account each day. You have to look and think: Am I prepared to have a child now? Am I financially stable and ready to bring a new life into a home such as my own?
Not to be rude, don't take this offensively, but judging from you saying you can't afford Plan B I'd say you are NOT ready to become a mother
Please take more caution next time you are having a sexual encounter. For yourself, as well as a potential future life.

[pearl_mysty7]

You can't blame God for that when it happens because we're the ones who enjoy it and done it.. but the God has a plan for you.. how old are you?

[J_9]

I am a catholic as well. I got pregnant using both birth control pills AND condoms. Luckily I was married at the time. This happened to me not once, but twice. My boys are now 26 and 24 and they have since given me grandchildren.

It has nothing to do with God. Trust me. I didn't think God would give me cancer, but I had cancer.

If you aren't ready to be a mother, stop having sex, or any form of sex.

[pearl_mysty7]

Yes she's right next time when you have that in your mind you should also be aware that it could really happen.. be responsible for yourself.. we only tell this because we really care for your future or for your baby

[pearl_mysty7]

j_9 do you really have that sick? I'm sorry

[LittleBlackKat]

J_9 is right. I'm not trying to tell you what to do and what NOT to do, but you have to realize you COULD run into serious trouble if you aren't careful.

[TraceyAnn14]

And I made I mistake.. I wanted advice, and needed help. I know I'm not ready! Im trying to learn.. I made a mistake.. and I wanted opinions and knowledge if anyone thought I could be... I was scared and I needed help.. not told all this.. now I'm back to the beginning... scared and unsure

[pearl_mysty7]

Is it matter of choices.. not religion.. you cannot blame anyone for what's happening in to you

[LittleBlackKat]

We're not trying to scare you, we're telling you about reality. Even if you DIDN'T get pregnant, you could get an STI.

[pearl_mysty7]

Everyone makes mistakes kid but we assure you if you face all your fears and get ready to be responsible everything will be OK.. I'm also a young mom.. in my age I should be finishing my college right now.. but I'm working now for the future of my child.. but I'm happy6 with my husband..

[pearl_mysty7]

Yup you could get a disease...