[Lilly13]

Hi,

I am in a relationship for three years. We were very good friends in the beginning, spending our time together and I guess we started to like each-other at the same time more than friends. He was not my ideal guy in the terms of appearance, but he seemed he has a good heart. He listened to me ,shared my pain and happiness. Since we were friends, we did not want to change our status among friends. We started having a secret relationship till time we are sure about our feelings.

While we had a secret relationship , everything worked just perfect. We started to have gf/bf after three months. After a while, we started to have fights, and hurt each-other , but next day we forgot everything again. He is a very romantic guy in bed, but he is not a kind of guy to buy you presents or he has never bought me flowers.

I have a conservative dad.If I ever introduce any guy to him, it means that I am getting engaged very soon. Therefore, I have not introduced anyone yet, which I have thought could be a candidate for it. I really wanted to introduce him to my dad,but he said that he was not ready for any marriage. We have different music tastes and cultures but he does not feel ready for commitment. He could not keep his eyes away from girls who wear sexy cloths, and watch them on YouTube,on Tv which hurt me more. I tried to break up three times, but he wanted to get me back all the time. I just can't understand him and this way of approach does not make me happy. I do not know what to do:(

[talaniman]

Must be some good sex if you keep going back. Or you are mighty lonely. Why do you go back? Seems if you were serious about leaving him, you would say NO, when he wants you back!

[bootnelroy]

Sorry hun he is playing you like a guitar... he is controlling and definietly not your soulmate... looking at others is natural looking at utube vids of hot chicks when your in a relationship is borderline sick