Should I get a divorce? Or how can I fix my marriage?
I been married for only a year and a half, but we always had problems in our relationship I just don't know if they are normal or big problems. He always told me he was selfish but I didn't see it till a bit before the wedding , didn't seem like a good enough reason to not marry the man. But it's seems to have gotten so much worse, I would think if he loved me he would want to do things for me, help me, care whether I'm upset or happy, and so one but I get nothing. It could be a situation where I'm extremely upset and instead of trying anything to fix or cheer me up or anything at all he gets mad at me and leaves. Or he'll do things that he knows would make upset and won't care. He doesn't care about my opinion on anything. He only does what he can to get what he wants and nothing else. We have a daughter his our main source of income I worry he won't be able to provide for her because he meets his needs and wants first . I talked to him so many times about his short comings as well as mine most times it doesn't go well but sometimes it does he said he work on it but nothing ever changes. I want him to value me as his wife respect me, my opinions, my values. I want him to care when I'm upset and try to fix things with me instead of yelling at me saying if I don't like who is I can leave. I know can be a great guy but it seems he doesn't want to be that guy for me if he has to make sacrifices of any kind. I feel like the only way to make things work with him is to give up my rights my believes and myself respect. Is there a way to save my marriage without missing out in my happiness?
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