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Sorric · Feb 13, 2007, 07:07 PM

OK so I like this girl and I heard she likes me but she has a Boyfriend and She said that he was pissed about Me and her even though nothings happened yet between me and her and I'm not sure what to do because me and Her boyfriend are good friends and stuff so I'm not sure what to do about this problem any advise would help

sapphiremoon · Feb 13, 2007, 07:28 PM

It's probably a given that you can't have a relationship with both the girl and your friend, her boyfriend. You need to decide which relationship is worth more to you. Personally I'd recommend sticking with your friend (her boyfriend) because good friendships can be hard to find, and forming a relationship with someone that you like and you heard likes you, but already has a boyfriend, is probably not likely.

If you want to keep your friendship, tell the girl that although you like her, you don't want to hurt your friend by interfering with their relationship-then stop talking to her unless he's around too. You may also need to talk to your friend about the situation, and apologize if you've upset him. If he's mad at you for no reason and won't accept your apology and good intentions, give him a little breathing room for a while to calm down.

Sorric · Feb 13, 2007, 07:33 PM

OK thanks for the advise

talaniman · Feb 13, 2007, 08:04 PM

Your crossing the line between your friends girlfriend and you. Not good.

valinors_sorrow · Feb 13, 2007, 08:36 PM

Now is a good time to establish that girls who are not available... are not available and that its hands off until they are available. The best you can do is treat her like the girlfriend of your guy friend ALL the time. If you attempt to take her from him you'll find you "proved your manhood" in the worst possible way, very likely at the expense of two friends and bought yourself a sleezy reputation too -- I hope you like game players for girlfriends because that's who you'll attract too. Better rethink this one.

Sorric · Feb 14, 2007, 08:00 PM

OK thanks for the help

JakM2007 · Feb 23, 2007, 09:53 AM

Mate if he is your friend don't bother, you shouldn't ever stitch your mate over a girl. Ive had a few girlfriends but always the same mates because we not hurt each other an been there for each other. A friend is a lot more precious then a girl, if you haven't experienced it yet you will find out that a friend stays for longer as long as your fithful. Just keep it sweet at the mo.

Sorric · Feb 27, 2007, 07:50 AM

OK but yea I guess now he broke up with her and stuff because of him and her going to different schools and I go to her school and me and my friend are still cool and its been a few weeks since they broke up so I'm probabaly not going to ask her out though just in case they still might have feelings for each other

SapphireChild · Feb 27, 2007, 08:32 AM

That's a good idea, Sorric. I started going out with one of my best friend's ex's last year, and even though we're cool now and I'm still with her ex, we didn't talk to each other for a couple months. Save yourself the trouble.. . another girl will come along soon enough.