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    Jan 10, 2012, 02:49 AM
    I lost my clitoris as I had female genital mutilation?
    Will I ever be able to enjoy intercourse? I mean I enjoy making out, but what about intercourse I haven't tried ye.. I'm so afraid.
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    Jan 10, 2012, 06:26 AM
    How old are you?
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    Jan 10, 2012, 01:13 PM
    I'm 22
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    Jan 10, 2012, 01:33 PM
    I've heard various things about this... and a lot depends on the butchers that did that to you. And how much scarring you have. If you are able to get several fingers inside without pain then you might be lucky and be able to... if you can't because of excessive scarring almost closing the vaginal opening you will have to go to a doctor first to correct it.

    And understand lacking the clitoris the sensation isn't ever going to be the same for you again as the average woman. How much enjoyment you receive is going to depend very much on you. By that I mean with women its more of a mental than a physical thing.. and it is possible for a woman to have an orgasm without even being touched below the waist ( I've seen it myself) with an ex-girlfriend... and I assume it could be the same for you. Its very dependent on the individual woman herself.

    And you will still have to take all the regular precautions for birth control, such as Condoms... etc.

    You have both my sympathy as well as my best wishes you are one of the women that aren't dependent on that for her fullfillment. Because it is possible.
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    Jan 11, 2012, 07:14 PM
    Smoothy answered you quite honestly and gently. I would suggest that you find a physician who has seen this before and will offer you a thorough exam. Additionally, you should take your time and whenever you find a possible partner; go very slowly and let trust and your own feelings guide you. Best wishes.

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