[ridergurlie521]

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I'm 20 and he is 21. We normally never argue and don't lie to each other. I had a jello shot at my work Christmas party, one jello shot. But.I told him I didn't have any alcohol. He found out 3 days ago and it started a huge argument about me lying to him. He broke up with me later that day and hasn't replied. He did go to a party with a bunch of girls for new years that night. I've texted him numerous times apologizing and begging him to just talk to me. It's been 4 days and still no contact with me. Do you think I have a chance of patching things up? Does he still have feelings for me?

[mmresd]

Why would you want to patch things up with someone like that to begin with?

He doesn't want to hear what you say, he clearly does not care of your feelings, and I think he has severe issues if his reaction was like that. Also, it seems to me as if he has used the jello shot as an opportunity to do something he was wanting to do anyway, and him going of to a party also shows that he is wanting to behave as a single person.

[TrueFaith]

I agree why are you giving him the power why are you begging like that?

I mean over 1 jello shot?? If that's enough to end a 2 year relationship then it was not even worth it to start with!
I think there is more issues here.

Or he could just be doing this to control you either way ignore him and get on with your life

[ridergurlie521]

Well, he's the love of my life. I've given up everything for this guy. He did explain to me, that it was about trust, not that I had the jello shot. The fact that I didn't tell him and that I lied about it.

[TrueFaith]

Sorry love of your life and you giving up everything are no exsuce for someone treating you like that. If he flips out over something like that then wow. You guys are very young and he seems to have massive trust issues

Either way. Better off without that typ of drama in your life.
In a good relationship a couple should work together on trust issues both partners need to communicate with each other.
As communication is key! To any good relationship

[talaniman]

Time to stop begging for sure and see that a small thing can be blown out of proportion by a fool.

Who needs a fool, and maybe you give him more credit than he deserves. Ignore him, so he will see the foolishness of his own actions. Love is blind all right and you have been blind to his stupidity.

[mmresd]

I think he is not the love of your life, but A love in your life... There will be many, let this one go and move onto the next chapter in your life, no use in waiting around for someone as pathetic as this guy.