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    Beautiful23 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 2, 2012, 10:58 PM
    Boyfriend of 11 months said he would have hooked up with my cousin instead of me
    So me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and our one year is in February. When we fight he ALWAYS curses at me and has called me a ***** numerous times and slut, and whore once. He also admitted his best friends wife was prettier than me. Then today we were talking and I told him my cousin thought he was really hot and he's like YOU stopped us from hooking up!

    But I forced him to tell me that if I introduced them before we started dating, would he go for her instead of me? And he's like MMHHMMMM...

    What am I suppose to do? This guy tells me he loves me so much and then tells me all of these things. I'm so hurt... I truly feel ugly.

    What are your comments on this?
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    Jan 3, 2012, 12:13 PM
    I am wondering why you let a guy talk down to you and treat you like dirt?

    Why are you with him even? He says he loves you and dogs you out, and you go along with his bad behavior?

    My only comment is you can do better for yourself. Don't keep eating his crap!
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    Jan 10, 2012, 08:26 PM
    You forced him to tell you a answer, sorry are you stupid or what, This is a question you should not have asked. In fact most likely he was tired of you "forcing" a answer so he said something to make you mad, since he was tired of you bothering him.

    You both sound childish.

    Next I wonder when you fight, what you call him?

    But you don't allow him to call you names, That is not how anyone that really loves you acts.
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    Jan 10, 2012, 08:40 PM
    Why do you stay with someone who treats you so poorly?
    Tell him to bug off.
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    Jan 16, 2012, 10:50 PM
    Leave him
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