When to break up
Hi,
I'm 38 year old woman and I am dating a new guy for about 5 months. He's nice, gentle, kind, generous. I'm not attracted. He has an extra amount of weight and it turns me off. I'm ashamed of myself. I'm not perfect, why am I being so shallow. Also, his sense of humor is not good. It irks me and I have to consciously force myself not to roll my eyes. I think he realized my lack of attraction because he's not able to have sex with me. We did it successfully twice, but now he says I make him nervous. I tried to be more playful and get him in the mood, but it wouldn't work. The thing is, I don't blame him. I think I should just go. I feel sad because some things were right. He's a great person. He spent a small fortune on my Christmas gift (I spent what I could, but couldn't match anywhere near what he spent on me.) Now just a week later, we're almost over. I feel like a horse's ***. What should I do? Should I just keep going? Could it get better?
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