[Alexeai]

I'm 18 and something's been bothering me for quite awhile. When Since I lost my virginity I haven't been able to feel any pleasure during sex including oral. What I feel is myself sliding in and out or the suction but I don't feel any pleasure just discomfort. I've been told it can sometimes be emotional and may be my partner but I've not only tried switching my parter but I've also tried switching positions. Masturbation feels great but actual sex feels like nothing more then skin on skin. Is there something wrong with my penis?

[Aurora_Bell]

How often do you masterbate?

[Alexeai]

Well it almost had become an addiction for awhile... It was happening like once or twice a day at least. For awhile It felt as though masturbation felt better then actual sex

[Aurora_Bell]

A lot of times people who masterbate frequently are desensitized to the real thing. Why not try skipping the self gratitude for awhile and see if that improves things?

[Alexeai]

Really willing to try anything at this point so its worth a shot.

[Alexeai]

As a kind of side question or remark what would be a good estimate for stopping periods? Out of all honesty the longest I've gone has been about 3 dry days. Ive got great self dicipline so it wouldn't be a problem hanging in for longer then that obviously but any recommendations on how to slowly quit. I'd really like to break the habit

[JudyKayTee]

Masturbation is the easy path to satisfaction. You know EXACTLY where/when/how to climax. A partner doesn't know that.

If you have great self discipline, then simply stop until the next time you have intercourse and see if things are different.

Is this always with the same woman?

[Alexeai]

Usually but not always.

[Aurora_Bell]

Ya, I would stop until you have sex again. LIke cold turkey for at least a week or two. Even try to old off on sex for at least a week or so. See of that helps.