[PandabearsRock]

So I was on Facebook, and my boyfriend status was like if you think I've broke these rules, and it said drugs, and he said he does cigarettes. So I talked to him and he said he did, he's not old enough to. I told him he should stop, and he said he would. So a month later I was at a school dance, and his two best friends came up to me, and lets say my bf's name is Seth, anyway they came up to me and said are you sure you are dating Seth?

I was for sure that he would tell me that he was breaking up with me. And I said yes, and they said he smokes. I talked to him that night and he said he started again. I told him he should stop and again he said he would.

I don't know if he has started again, and I don't want to bring the conversation up again, cause then he would think that I wouldn't trust him. What should I do? :(

[Fr_Chuck]

So break up with him, Sorry but if your communication comes from Facebook there are issues anyway. Next as soon as you start ordering him to do or not do something, it is over.

[PandabearsRock]

How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?

[talaniman]

You can't make him do things he doesn't want to do but this isn't a matter of trust. It's a habit so talk about it and ask him why he smokes.

Its hard for adult who smoke to quit, and he may need some extra help, and support to stop, and stay stopped.

How old is he, and YOU?

How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?

Why do you think he is? Because of what his friends say?