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    Jessica1001 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 23, 2011, 07:16 AM
    I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore
    I have been dating this guy for a year now everything was so perfect at the beginning of our relationship I was so happy but then I don't know what happened between me and him we argue all the time now he's called me names like dumb ***** and he's told me to f**** off several times he always gives me an attitude and never seems to listen to me I don't feel the same way about him the way anymore because of the way he treats me... What should I do? Please help me :/
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    Nov 23, 2011, 09:05 AM
    Do nothing. I know that doesn't sound the best, but you're you, if you think that you don't like him anymore, make him break-up with you, I don't mean be mean, and horrible, but be bland, really do nothing, then maybe he'll see what you're doing, and break-up with you. PokeXpert
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    Nov 23, 2011, 11:16 AM
    Seriously you should leave him... you deserve a better person in your life...
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    Nov 23, 2011, 11:27 AM
    Simply tell him that your feelings have changed and that you no longer want to be in an exclusive relationship.

    There is no point in continuing given how he treats you and your not having the same feelings for him anymore.

    You have learned from him how you don't want to be treated in future relationships.
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    Nov 23, 2011, 02:15 PM
    You break up with him. You don't stay with someone who treats you poorly. If you are unhappy, end it.
    If you are mature enough to date, you should also be mature enough to call it quits when it's not working.
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    Nov 23, 2011, 03:57 PM
    Break up, its better than cheating, right?

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ou-614282.html
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    Nov 24, 2011, 08:35 AM
    It sounds like he may be playing games to make you leave him instead of being mature and walking away or working with you to make the relationship better. Don't make the common mistake of making things worse before you finally get out.

    If your feelings have changed, let him, the relationship, the hurt, the frustrations, and all the other negative feelings go. Give yourself time, space and the means to heal and move on. Don't immediately rush into looking for someone better or look for signals where there may not be any. Take some time for yourself. Do things that you enjoy which help you feel good about you. Don't carry the baggage from this relationship into the next one.
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    Jessica1001 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 30, 2011, 06:54 PM
    Has my boyfriend been talking bad about me?
    My boyfriends cousin has been acting a lot different about me.. Could there be a possibility that my boyfriend has talked bad about me?
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    Nov 30, 2011, 07:03 PM
    It could be, or it could be someone else said something, or it could be something else, It could be even your imagination.

    Guess you will have to ask him or the cousin.
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    Dec 1, 2011, 03:16 AM
    What do you mean "Talking bad"? Do you think he has something to hide? Like he's been telling his cousin you've done something?

    His cousin may just be having a hard time at work. They might not have had his favourite brand of am in the shop. They may have just lost their favourite keyring. Talk to your boyfriend and find out if it's anything Hun.

    X Dani

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