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Nov 20, 2011, 07:19 PM
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Can my ex's new husband spank my daughter if I am against it?
Pretty much says it all up there. Is he allowed to spank my 6 year old daughter even when I said I won't allow it?
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 20, 2011, 07:22 PM
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I just got it figured out. I'm going to add a possessive to your title.
***ADDED*** I agree with what Scott said.
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Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
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Nov 20, 2011, 07:23 PM
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Since, right now, you aren't even the child's legal father, then you have no say.
If the mother allows the boyfriend to discipline the child and it isn't abusive, then its allowed. Some areas might have guidelines on the use of corporal punishment.
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New Member
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Nov 20, 2011, 07:31 PM
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You're right Scott I'm working on it. And Wondergirl I am the biological father. He is the step-father so yes she will be married to him.
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Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
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Nov 20, 2011, 07:34 PM
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He isn't yet the step father. Not until the wedding is over.
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 20, 2011, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by joemellie
Wondergirl i am the biological father. he is the step-father so yes she will be married to him.
I had done a knee-jerk answer without looking at your name -- and then I saw who you are, an old friend. Sorry for my misunderstanding. No more coffee at my computer table...
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Dogs Expert
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Nov 21, 2011, 09:38 AM
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I'm confused, there's obviously missing posts, what was the answer to this question?
What does the mom say about the spanking? There's a fine line between punishment and abuse.
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 21, 2011, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell
I'm confused, there's obviously missing posts, what was the answer to this question?
I had not looked at his name at first and had thought he was the mother, not the father. I tweaked the title to make it more clear. Nothing has been removed except my mistaken post.
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Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
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Nov 21, 2011, 10:46 AM
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Bella, you need to look at his other posts to understand.
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Uber Member
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Nov 21, 2011, 10:52 AM
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Hello father:
In THEIR house, he's allowed to use corporal punishment. He's NOT allowed to abuse your daughter... Abuse would be if he leaves marks. If he does, he's committed a crime. Watch your daughter very closely.
If you want to PREVENT him from punishing your daughter, you might write him a certified letter telling him that if there's ever one red mark on your daughter, he's going to be facing criminal
Charges.. Maybe THAT'LL stop him.
excon
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Dogs Expert
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Nov 21, 2011, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by ScottGem
Bella, you need to look at his other posts to understand.
Thank you WG and Scott.
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