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    Dee75 Posts: 21, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 17, 2011, 12:58 AM
    Proof that I paid back money to ex
    I owe some money to my abusive ex-boyfriend. He is being awkward saying that since he gave it me in cash, he wants it back in cash. I really don't want to see him again face to face. Is there anyway I can get the cash to him and get proof that I gave it him? I know it's a longshot but he won't leave me alone until I give it back. I had thought of postal orders but that will leave me out of pocket as they cost £12 for every £250 and I owe him £700. Any ideas welcome, thanks.
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    Nov 17, 2011, 04:33 AM
    If you have a friend you can trust you can ask that friend to deliver the money. Otherwise you can use a courier service.
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    Nov 17, 2011, 06:49 AM
    I'd go with an impartial courier service when you are dealing with cash. OR ask your Attorney (if you have one) to act as the intermediary.
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    Nov 17, 2011, 06:59 AM
    First there is no requirement to pay someone in cash, In fact I would refuse to ever pay in cash. There is no real proof of payment. He would get a check or money order or he would just not get the money. Who really cares what he wants.
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    Nov 21, 2011, 11:50 AM
    Paypal!
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    Nov 22, 2011, 09:34 AM
    Many thanks for your answers. I told him that I was going to see a solicitor to act as an intermediary and he gave me his bank account details almost immediately. Problem solved.
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    Nov 22, 2011, 10:19 AM
    Glad it worked out for you. Let's hope he's out of your life for good.
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