[cvakumar]

I am in love with a Christian girl, We both were in love right from college and now its time to marry. Can I marry her without me being converted to Christian? Will their church allow this (she also never wanted me to get converted)? Please guys help me know whether such a thing is possible? We are from India. Regarding this who is the best one to consult?

[Soothseeker]

The only people you need to consult and convince are the girl's parents and your own. The Pentecostal society is sort of strict regarding the matters of marriage and such; hence prepare yourself for the struggle of your life time. Whatever happens, remember that you are the ones who have to lead your lives. Don't let narrow minded communal thinking separate you from your love. I am a person who went through the same. You can marry by "special marriages act" without converting. Talking to a lawyer would help out too.