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    ladylove25 Posts: 100, Reputation: 0
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    Nov 11, 2011, 08:50 PM
    Friend issues?
    I've known my best friends for 5 years and I consider them to be family or my 2nd family. We usually hang on saturdays only because of school but that depends if we have a lot of exams to study for ( we all go to college). But lately I have noticed that my friends don't invite me to hang with them like they use to. Before they would call me to let me know that they were going to do something or to ask if I wanted to hang, But now they hardly call to ask me if I want to hang out. One Saturday I was ready and waiting for them to call me since we always hang on saturdays and they never did. They usually call at 4pm or 5pm but I waited till 7pm when I got a text from my friend asking me if I wanted to hang. When I asked where he was he said that the group was already at one of my other friends house. And it bothered me because they could have called before. I don't understand why they do this. I don't know if they just call to be sympathetic or they just assumed or thought I did not want to hang but they can't just assume or think anything.

    Today is veterans day which is on a Friday and I had no school and one of my friends texted me to just talk and he said he was playing dominoes with the group.. and I'm thinking, they could'nt have called? I don't know what to do or say to them because they might think I'm being silly. But what do you guys think?
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    Nov 11, 2011, 10:24 PM
    Instead of bringing it up with them, just be the one to call THEM to see if THEY are doing anything rather than waiting for them to call you. Show you want to do something. :)
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    Nov 11, 2011, 10:52 PM
    If they are doing something already why don't they just call me to pick me up?
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    Nov 14, 2011, 12:33 PM
    Maybe they are tired of being the one to always call you.
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    Nov 14, 2011, 02:03 PM
    Perhaps you should be the one to organise something at the weekend,see what they say.

    They may not want to follow your suggestion but may offer an alternative to you, which then will include you.

    Why don't you make the first move,tell them to all meet at yours on the weekend ,you can then all decide what you all want to do.
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    Nov 14, 2011, 02:45 PM
    I guess I could arrange plans. And no they do not call ALL the time for them to get tired of it lol anyway thanks
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