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Carolina20 · Oct 30, 2011, 02:21 PM

I have a question I need some answers to please! Okay there is this girl named Chelsea that works with my boyfriend at his new job. She seems to be around him and talk to him, and at the beginning, she looked at him a lot and always seem to pay attention to him. He mentioned it to me, and I got furious because I knew that from that moment, she had developed a crush on him.
Anyway weeks later, she seems to still be on his mind because she seems to be around her a bit. I told him to stay away from her, but he didn't listen. Then another girl that works with him, told him he same thing (to stay away from her), yet he doesn't seem to get it.
Now recently, he put pictures up and there were a few pictures that was her. I asked him because I was like oh my gosh seriously! He said the four of them (from his group) were having lunch, yet when I looked carefully, it seemed like no one else was there, but the two of them (Chelsea and my boyfriend).
Another thing that happened was his dad couldn't give him a ride home, so Chelsea offered him a ride home. He mentioned it to me and I got mad obviously.
I talked to his mom and she told me that he was a faithful guy, yet something in my heart says there's something not right. What do I do?

missbanks · Oct 30, 2011, 05:52 PM

Follow your instincts on this one. He's definitely a player or thinking about getting closer to her and the more you make of it to him he's going to be more distant. Dump him before he does it to you!!

Carolina20 · Oct 30, 2011, 10:30 PM

Thanks for your help! I just don't want to be stupid!

guitarteacher18 · Oct 31, 2011, 03:12 AM

Or talk to him and tell him if he doesn't stop you will dump him
Dumping him outright may not be the best idea if you really care about him

Carolina20 · Oct 31, 2011, 07:57 AM

I do care about him and yesterday I did talk to him about it and he understood where I was coming from. I told him if you were in my shoes, you would react the same way and I told him, if I cared and respected you, I would listen to you and not go out of my way to make you mad. He stood there quiet because he knew I was right. He apologized and told me he was going to keep his distance.
I really hope he does because it really bothers me to see that this girl is around him and I cannot just go to his job the whole time and watch over him... Honestly girls can be so stupid (not you missbanks), but honestly its like the moment some girl finds out the guy is taken, they do more to be around them... I hate that... They're taken for a reason, leave them alone!