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ChloeArnold.x · Oct 25, 2011, 06:17 AM

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3months and already he is wanting to go clubbing every weekend with his friends and on 'lads' holidays and drinking weekends etc..

It feels as if he is still acting as though he is single, does he really want a relationship or not? What would you do?

Fr_Chuck · Oct 25, 2011, 06:53 AM

How old are you ? And this may be his idea of a relationship.

You have to decide if you want this type, make it clear to him, and then decide what you want to do

ChloeArnold.x · Oct 25, 2011, 07:00 AM

I'm 17 and yes I would like a relationship with him but not of this type, I thought he would have wanted to spend more time with me rather then doing things single people would do

Cat1864 · Oct 25, 2011, 07:44 AM

How old is he?

How much time do you spend together during the week? Do you take time for your own interests and friends?

Three months is a very new relationship. This is when you should be finding out what each of you expect in a relationship and what compromises you may need to make.

Remember that both of you do need time with hobbies and friends to help you keep balance in your life. However, you also need communication and compromise to decide what is a good balance for the relationship. If he keeps insisting on every weekend having a party time, then he may not be the right male for you. Better to find out now.

mmresd · Oct 25, 2011, 12:17 PM

If he wants to have fun you have two options, join him or let him go. If he doesn't want you to go then it means he wants to have fun with his friend. Think about what you are doing when he goes out, try to have fun as well. If you simply cannot stand it, then break up and move on, don't try to change him, it will only create stress between the both of you. Remember that one of the things you need to do to be truly happy in a relationship is to be happy together and to be happy apart. If it is excessive, you can always try to talk to him about it.

talaniman · Oct 25, 2011, 02:53 PM

Your expectations of a relationship are obviously different than his, so try talking about it and see if some honest comunications can resolve things to the benefit of you both.

If not, he ain't the one for you.

Qwerasdfzxcv · Oct 26, 2011, 06:42 PM

You been together for 3 months and he is already pulling this crap I say get put I know you may really like him to the more you get attached the worst you will feel.