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Move or get back with my ex?
Hi? I'm 23 years old, been planning on moving to Los angeles for two years to pursue my acting, modeling and to have a better opportunity for my fashion business. Few months ago my ex boyfriend since 2007 contact me to see me. Few days ago we saw each other and feelings started coming back between us. He told me without knowing about my move he wanted to work things out so him and I get back with each other since he first contact me. He even talked about taking the next step with me that we never had. We broke up on good terms and I wouldn't mind working things out. After I told him about my move he told me to follow my heart and if I do stay he will move with me within a year from now to l.a. So should I move to L.A. Like I planned to this year? Or should I work things out with my ex that is willing to help me get more experience in FL in acting because he do films and music videos? Would it be OK for me to stay and build my resume and then move to L.A.
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Modelj123,
First welcome to this wonderful site! See, it is your choice. You have to take the decision, what behoves well to you. But, once you decide and act, never ever repent. Life is such a journey/vehicle, in which there is no backgear. How much help can your EX provide you is for you to see. If you departed on good terms, and if there are chances of revival of relationship and if you value him, and the relationship, decide that way. Ultimately, it is you, who is to decide. No THIRD person can't help you, please! |
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I would stick with your plan.
Exs are exs. Don't let this hold things up & confuse things. Don't look at him as an opportunity. Or trip w/guilt. You don't really want him. "my ex that is willing to help me get more experience in FL in acting because he do films and music videos? " "my ex boyfriend since 2007" Didn't you get over that already? |
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I agree with the others, he is an ex for a reason and if you two do end up getting back together then its very early for him to be making any promises to you..
Only you can decide what to do BUT think of it this way,if he hadn't of contacted you would you still be willing to stay? You had plans.. you should follow them and if he fits into them then he will follow you wherever you go. |
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