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Jtrimble2010 · Oct 7, 2011, 04:59 PM

Well this girl ad and I dated for 2 months, in those 2 months we got really close, but then she broke up with me after a long road trip that we took, I am still not sure why she broke up with me and have always wanted her back. So 2 days ago I get a random text from her asking me if I will take her on a date? So I say yes we set up at time for this Saturday. But since then we haven't spoke much. She tells me she misses being in my arms and seeing me. I don't know if she wants to get back together or what? Any advice?

sunbeamrunner · Oct 7, 2011, 05:37 PM

How well do you know this girl?

As harsh as this may sound, she may be using you for attention if she is not getting any male attention elsewhere. Because you are so in to her, you are willing to jump as soon as she suggests you take her out on a date. She knows this and you may be her fall back guy, someone to make her feel better about herself whilst she waits to meet someone new.

Alternatively, I could be wrong and she may want to be with you again.

Either way you deserve more answers from her. COnfront her about why she ended it the first time and point blank ask her what it is she is wanting from you now. It is not fair for her to play with your emotions and it is unfair of her to expect you to wait around for her. Be brave and ask those hard questions. Then you can move on from her... or really make something work.

I hope it works out for you :)

talaniman · Oct 7, 2011, 07:57 PM

I would have to know what the deal with the break up was about before I would do the dating thing with her.

Two months is an awful short time to get close, or even know someone well in my way of thinking, so if she can dump you and want a date, she can tell you what happened.

You do appear eager to please.

theredbaron · Oct 10, 2011, 12:28 PM

Well it seems this could go either way. She might just be trying to fill a void (which is not a good thing) or she might genuinely feel remorseful and want to try giving it another shot. Go on the date, be cautious, and maybe ask her why she broke it off and why she changed her mind. That's really the only way to know what's going on.