Originally Posted by
crystal.1991
well I just started college.
Awesome! Focus on that!
Originally Posted by
crystal.1991
that was a big step because I didn't move from the couch.
Well I'm glad you did. How about fitness? Cardio not only burns fat but you get these awesome things called endorphins which help with being happy and staying happy!
I love to workout out not only because I feel happier I just have that extra bounce in my step.
Focus on a better you. Not a skinnier you... but just a healthier more beautiful you from the inside out :-)
Originally Posted by
crystal.1991
I got friends and I try to do things to keep my mind off it
Great! Friends are good!
Do you have a job? No? Get one. If you do awesome. Don't like it? Find a better one! Can't? Then start doing some volunteer work.
Volunteering can be once a week at a nursing home, at a humane society, at the heart & stroke foundation--- really anywhere.
Helping others is probably the best way to help yourself.
Originally Posted by
crystal.1991
but we grew up together and everything i know is because of him.
Oh please.
I grew up with this girl. We were tight like pfft.. we were just so close. And she decides to go with this druggy loser guy and has his kid. I don't talk to her or even see her anymore, and we've known each other way before we were even potty trained.
So yeah you grow up with someone and they are no longer a part of your life, it can suck, but sometimes it's a good thing because NEGATIVE people do not belong in your life.
Do you really prefer to be with an unstable man?
My grandpa used to tell me "it's better to be alone than to be in bad company". He's right.
Originally Posted by
crystal.1991
I don't really know who to be without him.
You know who you can be?
Yourself.
Have you always wanted to do something? Like dye your hair or chop it all off? Get a tattoo? Get a piercing? Go to the club? Learn how to pole dance-- yeah they have classes! And they are FUN!
Heck try new things-- learn to cook.. sign up for a cooking class. Sign up for rollerderby... try crossfit.
Try new things! Find out what you like!
... but always have safe sex. (Just sayin')
Originally Posted by
crystal.1991
I thought a year ago that would be me having babies and getting married. it kills me to know she's pregnant. :(
Pfft. Thank goodness. Imagine YOU with a baby-- you just started college.. IT'S ROUGH! I know so.
And him--- the cheating husband. What a great relationship you would have had. You would probably have more nights spent crying alone with a baby than happy with him.
Count your blessing girlfraaann!
Be happy. Move on. Stop being such a big puddle of sad goo. Life is great and no man should make you feel so low.