[heartbrokekid5]

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for one year and 7 months. She is my first for everything and I love her allot. But she says she changes for me all the time and I really never listened to her and when she cried I sometimes ignored her because she did it so much(I know this is horrible) and now she says she (thinks) she likes another guy. We got in a huge fight and broke up and I realized how important she was to me and I didn't know because she was my first girlfriend. We talked a few after that and decided to try and work things out while dating but every time I worried and cried with her she acted like she didn't care. And now I know that I have changed because I know what its like without her. I got her flowers but she thought it was cheesy and said if this never happened I would have never done this and I've tried everything to change her mind. She called me last night and said that I will eventually get over her and she can't date me if she thinks she likes this guy and is confused. I think that she just misses being texted back fast and a lot of attention but I know I can be the I was once(she said that I was perfect for the first year) and now she said lets take a break and not talk for a couple of days and see if I will miss you or not. Then we got off the phone and I texted her and said its best if we just break up hoping I would get a sign that she cared but all she said was yes. So my question is do you think she will come back?

[TrueFaith]

Don't say stuff just for a test

Who does that? Uhh! Well I guess your young
It does not matter if she comes back what matter is you moving on with your life


Ok now listen to me. It hurts I know but it's over and it's time for you to go no contact with her and get on with your life,
Why would you want someone that does not want you back?
Now adding to the fact that this was your first
This will be the hardest it's ever going to be my friend :)
Trust me the first time we really fall I love and have that real girlfriend
Yeah it's a big thing to lose

But hey we have all lost that first one :) and it's a great thing because you know why everything you leanrt from that relationship adds up to the next so you take the good times from that relationship and move on
It's not all your fault that you broke up
You both just grew apart


I know you'll probable ignore most of the advice on here and send her more gifts and text her and play this. Let's see if I can make her jealous games.
But once you have gotten all that out of your system I hope I hope

You can focus on yourself and let the healing time start

All the best

[BK201]

If she has already fallen in love with the other guy, chances of her coming back to you is very less bro.
If she is just confused, and thinks that she likes the other guy.. prove it to her, that you are really sorry, and will do your best to be her best guy. But don't keep nudging her, that will only put more pressure on her. Tell her your honest feelings, and you wish she gives this relationship another chance. Then stay low.
Be prepared for the both. Good luck.

[heartbrokekid5]

Yah I think it is over she is now telling her old friends everything about me. She was once friends with them but they got into drugs and stuff and now all a sudden she talking to them about me.

[talaniman]

Its to late for the first one, and its over sorry. Now take your time and heal and get ready for the second one. I am sure you learned a lot about a relationship, so apply those lessons with the next love. When you have let the first one completely go, and have recovered from your loss properly.

[heartbrokekid5]

Me and my girlfriend broke up just recently. She was the best girl I have ever meant and the most beautiful as well. No other girls even come close to her so how am I suppose to get over her and find another girlfriend? I want another girlfriend because I like to hangout and have somebody to talk to and to text.

[talaniman]

She was also the first one. Go out and make some friends, both male and female so you can talk, and text, and hangout with.

Geez guy, give this some time to unravel on its own, and your new thread was merged with your old one. No need to start another thread about the same situation. That leads to confusion.