You appear to be having other issues besides conception I will briefly address them.
Sex should not be hurting, unless you are doing rough sex.
And are into pain. * some people are and if that is you thing, fine.
But if that is not the issue, are you having enough fore play to have proper lube to start ?
If those are not issues, and does not fix issues, please see the doctor, there may be other problems.
Next are your periods regular, and if so, are you tracking the proper dates you are most fertile. So you are timing sex for the most or best times.
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