[bexbex123]

I have been having them for the last 3days ealy in the moring the other day it got so bad that I almost pass out I do not no what to do with myself they are on other sides of my stomach and I do not no how to get rid of them or what might be making them
Any idels of what it is ?
I am 15 and not on my period

[Wondergirl]

It sounds like it's time to see a doctor.

[bexbex123]

I really do not want to go as I am worred what they will say to me if I do go

[Wondergirl]

i really do not want to go as i am worred what they will say to me if i do go

So if you pull the covers over your head, it might just go away? What if you have appendicitis or adhesions or gall stones?

[bexbex123]

I no I will not go away but I do not want to go and find out that I have something that can not be cure with out table or what not and have to go in H
My famliy as a lot to worred about already

[Wondergirl]

i no i will not go away but i do not want to go and find out that i have something that can not be cure with out table or what not and have to go in H
my famliy as alot to worred about already

And what if it's something that can easily be healed? Why suffer with great pain that very well may become much worse if you ignore this? You're very, very young. It might just be gas.

Now, tell me, what is REALLY preventing you from going to a doctor? What else are you hiding?

[bexbex123]

It might not be though but I do not want to go as I am just worryed about things

[Wondergirl]

it might not be tho but i do not want to go as i am just worryed about things

What things? I'll bet you can't even list four.

[bexbex123]

OK
I think I might be pregnant but I no my family and my ex will kill me

[Wondergirl]

Why do you think you might be pregnant? Tell me all about it. You're anonymous here and no one will get mad at you. Then we can begin to help you figure out what to do next.

[bexbex123]

As me and myh ex were drunk and had sex about 3weeks ago and then I started to feel really ill but put it down to like worred about exem and things but when I feel so ill the other day I started to worryed

[Wondergirl]

as me and myh ex were drunk and had sex about 3weeks ago and then i started to feel really ill but put it down to like worred about exem and things but when i feel so ill the other day i started to worryed

Did you use any birth control?

Have you been throwing up or having any other problems like that?

Are you in the U.S.

[bexbex123]

I live in the uk and no we did not
I have been feeling sick but not been

[Wondergirl]

Well, an early pregnancy does not mean pain, so I wonder what is really going on down there.

And if you are truly pregnant, the baby will be getting bigger and needs special vitamins.

[bexbex123]

I do not my I no that my ex will want nothing to do with the baby if I am pregnant and my mum and dad will go mad
And I am really worryed

[Wondergirl]

So if it's an ectopic pregnancy and the baby (if there is one) is growing in the wrong place and the pain gets worse and worse, but you still won't say anything?

And if there is no baby, you will continue to suffer more pain?

[redhed35]

i do not my i no that my ex will want nothing to do with the baby if i am preg and my mum and dad will go mad
and i am really worryed

Bexbex, I have read all your threads, you were at a party yesterday, had a good time and a few drinks by your own post, in another thread you posted today your looking for advice on another guy, and now you might be pregnant?

Your 15, whether you like it or not your parents need to intervene,whether they go 'mad' or not.

[odinn7]

Realistically... pregnant or not, you need to see a doctor. Get over being scared and do what needs to be done. This will probably not just go away.

[bexbex123]

I go out a lot and hate missing anything to do with my mates as they are the best and I no that they will start on one if I do not go to anything
I can not tell them as they will go mad they do not care what I do they never care about me
I do not no what to do at the min

[Wondergirl]

You really have no choice. You need to see a doctor.

If your mates don't care about you, why are they "the best"??