[bexbex123]

I need to find out if that's what making me feel so bad but I no if I go to the doc then my mum and dad will fine out and if I am pregnant then it will be hell here
I wish I'd never done it
Thank you everone here for your help

[Wondergirl]

If you are pregnant, then you are pregnant. Wishing you aren't won't make it go away. Have you taken an at-home early pregnancy test?

It's time you grow up and stop acting like a baby.

[bexbex123]

I have taken 1 and it came back pregnant but I am going to do some more just to make sure as they can be worng sometimes

[redhed35]

When was your last period?

[bexbex123]

I had my last one on the 17th of July

[redhed35]

So you have not even missed a period yet, its been 4 weeks since your last period and the test showed up positive?

That's odd, most of the home testing kits won't show a positive result until you at least miss a period, there's not enough hormones present to detect a pregnancy.

Either way you can go to a well women clinic and they will help you.

If you are pregnant your parents are going to find out in about 8 months anyway.

[bexbex123]

If I am pregnant I think the only think I can do is have a abortion that way my mum and dad will never no and I will not have to tell my ex as well

[Wondergirl]

Who would do the abortion? You do realize all the things that can go wrong with that, don't you?

Oh, and your parents will probably find out some day, and of course won't hold it against you that you destroyed their grandchild-to-be?

[Alty]

if i am preg i think the only think i can do is have a abortion that way my mum and dad will never no and i will not have to tell my ex aswell

How will you get an abortion at 15 without parental consent?

Red is right, you need help. Your behavior is out of control, and an abortion and hiding it from your parents isn't going to help. They need to know about the bad choices you've been making and continue to make, so they can intervene, help you.

If you don't get this behavior under control this won't be the last pregnancy scare you have. Next time it may even be a bigger scare, something you can't just get rid of at a clinic, like AIDS.

[justcurious55]

So let's say you are pregnant, how are you going to get an abortion if you won't go to the doctor and confirm whether you're pregnant? And you know that you have to have an abortion rather early on in your pregnancy, right? So if you really think you're pregnant that you need to find out sooner rather than later if you want to be able to really consider all of your options.

And what if you're not pregnant? What if something else is wrong? Your answers aren't really adding up. First you had your last period less than a month ago. And now you're getting positive pregnancy tests before you've even missed a period. Someone else already pointed out that that's not the norm with ept. So what's really going on? I'm also wondering how your mates are the best if they don't care about you. Sounds like it's time for you to really take a good close look at your life and choices and make some serious changes.

[Alty]

Smells like a troll to me, but I could be wrong.

I hope she comes back and actually tells us the whole story.

[bexbex123]

justcurious55 - my life is a mess I will hold my hands up
I will say that I will go over and more to break any rules that any one sets I have hated my life (still do) no care the only people that sort of get me are my mates and my in and out boyfriends

[Alty]

justcurious55 - my life is a mess i will hold my hands up
i will say that i will go over and more to break any rules that any one sets i have hated my life (still do) no care the only people that sort of get me are my mates nd my in and out boyfriends

You hate your life? That's your excuse?

Want to compare lives?

When I was a child, under 5 years of age, my cousin started molesting me. She (yes she), was my babysitter. She babysat at least 2 times a month, and the abuse continued for many years.

When I was 18 I was raped.

I didn't give a damn about myself, and I gave myself to anyone that wanted me. Why should I care? I wasn't worth it.

I was beaten, abused, you name it. I did drugs, I slept around.

I got lucky. I never got pregnant, I got off the drugs, I got counseling, I met someone that actually cares about me and we've been together for 21 years now.

All was going well, married, a beautiful son, and then both of my parents died of cancer within 6 months of each other. But I survived. I carried on.

If your life sucks, do something about it. Get help! If you don't get help, then this bad behavior, it's an excuse. I know, because I've been there.

You obviously care about your parents, because you care about what they think. So talk to them about your life, and why it's so crappy. Get into counseling. Stop making things worse by being the worst you can be. Do better.

[justcurious55]

Yeah. My life is a mess too. Everyone goes through messy periods. But if you get it together you can get out of whatever mess you're in.
Thank you alty for sharing your story, you remind me that the things I'm going through are small potatoes. And I was needing a reminder today that things get better.
Bexbex- things really do get better, if we let them anyway. You can make choices to take care of yourself, to make better friends, to lead a healthier lifestyle. But it's all up to you. And right now, the first step to making things better is getting yourself to the doctor and getting to the bottom of these stomach pains and figuring out whether you are pregnant.

[bexbex123]

I when to the doc today and found out that I am pregnant I do not no what I will do but I will tell me mum and dad something this week and try the ex boyfriend as well
Altenweg - I hope my life turns out like yours as in the end as from the post it's like you have my dream life as your

[Alty]

i when to the doc today and found out that i am preg i do not no what i will do but i will tell me mum and dad something this week and try the ex boyfriend as well
Altenweg - i hope my life turns out like yours as in the end as from the post it's like you have my dream life as your

Bexbex, it's not going to happen without work on your part.

Step one is to stop letting boys use you. Stop giving your body to every Tom, Rick and Harry. Find some self respect. You deserve to respect yourself, and your body.

Tell your parents that you're pregnant, and then let them help you make a decision on what to do next. Get counseling to not only help you with this, but with all the other stuff you're dealing with.

Stop hanging out with people that very obviously don't care about you. Honestly sweetie, with friends like that, you don't need enemies.

Most of all, look to your future. Put your past behind you and make every day from now on count. Do your best in school, find people that actually care about you, find a good counselor, and start caring about yourself, respect yourself, love yourself, and make you the best you you can be.

Trust me, getting my life is possible. I've been in the ditch, and I pulled myself out. How? I realized that I'm worth it, and so are you!

[bexbex123]

OK I will tell them today
And thanks for your help

[Alty]

ok i will tell them today
and thanks for your help

Come back and tell us how it goes. We're always here if you need to talk.

This may be bad, and they may be shocked, but you'll get through it. There will be many times in your life that you'll have to go through things you don't want to.

The important thing is to accept that this has happened, deal with it, and learn from it. Okay?

[bexbex123]

I told my mum first and she when mad and said that she was hurt that she wished I have talked to her etc and that she will tell my dad but she like me to get a abortion of it as it will ruin my life
She did and he was yelling at me for ages but then when out
The last thing I heard that them is that my dad wants me to move out as he is not having me or my kid under his roof
They have not said anything to me yet but
I new it go's like this
This is why I really did not want to tell them any thing

[Wondergirl]

Let the dust settle. The news is brand new to them.