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hunterevangibbs · Aug 13, 2011, 10:21 AM

My girlfriend and I have ben dating for exactley ten months, we just got back from the beach and three weeks later she said to me:i want to be single and I want space and I need to know who I am, I don't want to have to rely on you for all my hapiness because her family and friends always expected her to be with me, over the ten months together we have spent so much time together. The things that I thing actually caused the break up are that I am often controlling about wanting to hangout and also I seem to ask a whole lot of questions about what she is doing when not with me I have told her these confessions about what I did wrong and she agrees but also she doesn't call me since the break up. She doesn't text me nothing, I have ben doing no contact, but tonight I heard a rumor that she is falling for another guy but I do not think it is true because she isn't that kind of girl, anyway I have seen her once in the 5 days of our break up and she hugged and kissed me a lot and said this is very hard for me and that its something she just needs to do for herself.. she said she loves me still and never will stop but she also said don't expect to get back anytime soon she said it could be three months a year or never until she dates me again.. well I need advice, do you think that we will be together in the future? Also sooner or later?

granthardeman · Aug 13, 2011, 10:35 AM

My girlfriend and I have ben dating for exactley ten months, we just got back from the beach and three weeks later she said to me:i want to be single and I want space and I need to know who I am, I don't want to have to rely on you for all my hapiness because her family and friends always expected her to be with me, over the ten months together we have spent so much time together. The things that I thing actually caused the break up are that I am often controlling about wanting to hangout and also I seem to ask a whole lot of questions about what she is doing when not with me I have told her these confessions about what I did wrong and she agrees but also she doesn't call me since the break up. She doesn't text me nothing, I have ben doing no contact, but tonight I heard a rumor that she is falling for another guy but I do not think it is true because she isn't that kind of girl, anyway I have seen her once in the 5 days of our break up and she hugged and kissed me a lot and said this is very hard for me and that its something she just needs to do for herself.. she said she loves me still and never will stop but she also said don't expect to get back anytime soon she said it could be three months a year or never until she dates me again.. well I need advice, do you think that we will be together in the future? Also sooner or later?

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Zeshawn · Aug 14, 2011, 02:33 AM

Well... Its like something happened to me in my life. She really cares about you.. and She loves you a lot for some reasons. But why she ask for gape between you and her, that is not clear at all. Talk to her about the reason that why she need space? Why she is hurting you like that?
If the reason is nothing... If there isn't any reason behind that, like family probs, or she fall for some one else.
Make sure, If there isn't family problem then She can't come back to you. If she met u in a week and kiss u hug u... and tells u about all her heart. Then if she do not Date. It doesn't matter at all She is still with you and for you. But due to some reasons if she do not met u, do not talk to u, and she don't want to show you the reason then break up! Leave her for ever... thats the power u gave her. U gave her a power by giving her full attention. That's why she is doing that to u. she needs to be single to enjoy whatever she wants.