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    Aug 8, 2011, 12:44 PM
    Am I squirting or peeing... Have no idea...
    My boyfriend mentioned something to me about squirting about a week ago... So I decided to please him that I would check it out since I've heard all women can do it.. My issue is however, that now that I think I have it down I don't know if I'm "squirting" or peeing myself.. First time I seriously thought I was about to do it I was about to scream with pleasure but I was in a house full of people so I held back.. Tried again and I felt like I pissed. Reason being it doesn't feel good when I'm doing it. I heard when you feel like you have to pee to just release almost push it out... but If it's not feeling good then am I just peeing myself? Like I don't know then the second time I tried it smelled very strong of like Gauze... Only way I can explain the smell... nothing like urine.. although once again today did it again... was feeling really good until I felt like I had to pee.. I pushed and then It doesn't feel like anything other than peeing myself... and Then I ALWAYS have to take a massive pee afterwards.. Like am I squirting or peeing.. I really have no idea.. but Im about to just piss on him if it makes him happy because I'm tired of trying to figure it out. LOL
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    Aug 8, 2011, 12:57 PM

    Due to posting restrictions on the Adult Sexuality Board, please give your age.

    Also, please do not use chat/text talk. It is against site rules.
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    Aug 8, 2011, 04:57 PM

    You heard wrong, you either do it automatically or you don't
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    Aug 9, 2011, 05:17 PM
    Im 22... and seriously I can't type the way I want to?
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    Aug 9, 2011, 06:17 PM

    From the TOS (Ask Me Help Desk - FAQ: Terms of Service, FAQ and How To Use This Site
    Use the best English you are capable of. "Chat speak", all caps, lack of punctuation, etc. can be annoying, and will frequently result in the post being either unanswered or removed.
    From what I have read, squirting is an involuntary reaction. It is not something you can control or force. Most things I have read that say every woman can and make it sound like a trained act are trying to sell something. Usually a book or tapes.

    No one seems to know for certain what makes up a woman's ejaculate. Too few studies and mixed results. The only things I have found to be consistent are that not all women are capable and that not enough research has been done.

    If your boyfriend thinks 'every' woman can 'squirt', then he has been watching way too much of the wrong porn. Those women are faking. Just like both men and women are faking/over acting for their orgasms. It is scripted and it is for the cameras.
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    Aug 9, 2011, 07:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MissBreezi89 View Post
    Im 22... and seriously I can't type the way I want to?!
    Warning issued, no you have to follow the rules. Acting like this makes you sound much younger, what is your real age. Adults behave better
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    Aug 12, 2011, 10:59 AM
    Like I said I am 22... Born 4/20/1989 what do you want to see my ID?
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    Aug 12, 2011, 03:13 PM

    You've done the reading. It sounds like you might be squirting. It is really hard to say given the information provided and my general apathy towards your plight.

    You will get more answers being kind instead of self-serving and rude.

    So yea... kind sounds like you squirted. Why you would want too is beyond me. Towels and rubber sheets will be your friend if you want to continue this 'hobby'.
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    Sep 23, 2011, 10:44 AM
    I'm not trying to "self serving" or "rude", but when I feel like people judging a situation off the way I type something then yes I will be a little defensive.. and I didn't feel the way some people were coming off was appropriate.
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    Sep 23, 2011, 12:51 PM
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    Welcome to the internet love. We judge you based upon what you write here. This is the only example of you we have. You came on here with attitude while talking like a juvenile. We corrected you, like we correct anyone even long time users, and you blasted us back.

    So the potential returns for us helping you have dropped significantly. This is all because of what you wrote. Don't get angry at us. A few of us actually tried to answer your question. Maybe be a little nicer and swallow your pride and you'll be fine.

    What can we help you with now?
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    Sep 23, 2011, 08:03 PM
    Agreed, if you text talk like a 15 year old, that is what we will believe you are. And then when asked you get an attitude, which again, makes you seem more like a 15 year old.

    So we put that aside, if you want to discuss it more, as adults we are glad to help

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