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BowCountry · Jul 4, 2011, 03:21 PM

(this might be long) Well I have two questions, but first let me tell you the story. We met on You tube (yes, I know, weird). We talked and got to know each other really well. He made me smile all the time, by calling me beautiful and stuff like that. And as stupid as it sounds, I fell in love with him.

Unfortunately, my mom found out we were talking and took my phone. I just got it back and I've tried talking to him once or twice, but he's not the same anymore.. he's more withdrawn, doesn't joke. I have no clue why.. We hardly ever talk.

And the next question is should I trust him? I've never met him. But I've seen tons of videos and pictures of him. I've also web cam with him. And if he was some creeper wouldn't he would have tried to do something already? (we 'met' like a year ago). And yeah.. Does anyone have answers? Please?

talaniman · Jul 4, 2011, 03:59 PM

Whatever changed him, probably something in his life, he is backing off, and so should you. Its no longer a matter of trust or anything else, but a matter of interest, and enthusiasm. Maybe it just faded, or maybe it was never there when he thought on it. No big deal, plenty of others to get to know, within the boundaries of your moms rules of course.

HurtScorpio · Jul 9, 2011, 07:34 PM

Just stay away from the situation. At the time he may have been single and now he is with someone and may not want to tell you but I would advise staying away from meeeting someone on YouTube however that happened. Sounds like you are a teen so stick to people in your area, school, and not on the internet. You truly do not know a person until you meet them in person and why are you taking the chance of him "doing something crazy"? Do you think maybe that is why your mom took your phone away? I am not trying to be sarcastic but maybe you are trying to seek out social contacts and not looking at the consequences. Be careful. Wait until you are older if you want to "date" on the internet and if then do so on a dating site not YouTube.

answerme_tender · Jul 9, 2011, 08:54 PM

Obviously he just isn't into this relationship as you are. Don't you think its time to try and find someone that you can sit down and talk with without being on a web cam. How can you fall in love with an image on a computer screen that you have NEVER meet.