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    i0nicgen Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 19, 2011, 10:08 AM
    My GF is being molested
    Hello everyone,I am in a very bad situation, my girlfriend is staying in her home country for 2 months, and her brother arrived yesterday also,the situation is that,her brother has molested her during her sleep,she has awaken to finding him doing things to her,using her hands or body,she also told me he has done it to his aunt,their aunt's daughter,and to her, she is afraid of it but doesn't dare to say anything because he is the golden boy of the family, "the favorite",her family doesn't trust her much and I would think they wouldn't believe her if she did tell, I have been trying to build up her courage to do something, the problem is their house is under construction and right now they all sleep on the same room, and he sleeps right beside her,I have given her ideas on how to stop it, but they only seem to work for a while. I wanted to confront him personally, but she warned me not to do it saying we would break up if I did anything, it took her a lot to say this to someone else, I am the first she has told this to. I don't know what to do, I keep trying to think of ways to stop it, I told her to wake her mother up when he does it, like wake her up right when he's trying it, but I don't think she dares to do that, she's afraid of what might happen, if they don't believe her or he gives some cheap excuse and they believe him. I thought about sending him a message telling him I knew what he was doing, to try and scare him, I know he's a coward, but I don't know if that will work, I would appreciate any advice anyone would be willing to give,anything at all, I want to stop this from happening but it seems to be such a delicate situation.
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    tmtrotminor Posts: 38, Reputation: 15
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    Jun 19, 2011, 02:38 PM

    Regardless, she needs to tell her mother. She can do it with everyone else who's been the victim here. Also, how old is she?

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