[loveni]

OK, hi , I read a few storys here that I can reflect on , all answers say move on you can't make any 1 fall in love uneless they want to I know this but has any 1 any storys that there woman just needed space and nothing more , then came back to them ? I had a girlfriend / best friend / enggaged / house / planned a year trip to another country which was paid 4, sounds unbelivable but never split up or had any rows in 7 years , 1 or 2 dissagreements but never fight about them . I'm 25 she's 23 , lived together 3 years couldn't b any happy then BOOM I'm not in love wit you any more,, its being 3 weeks now no contact, I've asked 2 meet 4 lunch with no joy , she was busy,, she has ring off finger , seams not botherd about the whole thing , I feel like a sack of sh1t but hy 7 years happy as a pig in sh1t then boom out of nowhere, does any 1 have any storyies of there girl coming back to them? Thanks 4 replys

[JudyKayTee]

Please stop posting the same question.

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[latashabrewingt]

That was mean 2 say just because he post it you don't have 2 respond (judykaytee)! Anyway It sounds like she been seeing someone else I no that's not what you won't 2 hear but if you been together that long an she just up an left an don't care then she has been seeing somebody that she done fell and love with an as a women no women wonts a begging man even though you do care mayb if you act like you don't it might bring her back

[Alty]

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[loveni]

OK , sorry I didn't know what section to post in , sorry about that, first time poster :)
Thanks latashabrewright 4 reply, mmmm I don't know if she would do that but she is acting strange lately so maybe ,

[adviceishere]

ok , sorry i didnt know what section to post in , sorry about that, first time poster :)
thanks latashabrewright 4 reply ,, mmmm i dont know if she would do that but she is acting strange lately so maybe ,

Look man, there is no way anyone could tell you she's been cheating unless you had a trusted eye-witness or you seen it for yourself, so please don't jump to conclusions, I think you know in your heart of hearts this is not the case.

Seven years is a long time to be together, you can fall in and out of love with someone. Chances of her not caring about it are slim, she is probably crying over it every night, you can't tell. Take it from me, just recently ended it with my partner, he was very upset, the whole world knew he was upset, everyone thought I wasn't bothered by it, but I cried on my own and put on a brave face.

We are now back together, it was me that ended it and decided to give it another try, there is always hope, but as you read before, she needs time, let her have it. But don't have false hope either. My boyfriend truly thought it was over and so did I, only time can tell.

In the mean time start doing some positive things, finish projects you have started but never finished, visit friends, anything that keeps your mind busy. You might even realise its for the best. Good luck

[loveni]

Thanks that's a good answer,, Thanks for replying, did you see any one else or did he see any one else ? How long were ye apart ,

[adviceishere]

Thanks thats a good answer ,,, Thanks for replying ,, did you see any one else or did he see any one else ? how long were ye apart ,

Are you Irish by any chance?? We were apart about a month, niether of us seen anyone else.