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UserName_01 · May 10, 2011, 09:52 PM

Well me and my girlfriend broke up after six months mainly because she liked another guy more than me, she even went as far to say that she was just plain bored of me. Well now she is going out with him, but we still talk and such and then she gets mad for no reason and when I asked her about it she said she hates it when I flirt with other girls. She went on to say that she still has feelings for me but she is going to forget me until they go away. We got into a fight and now she won't talk anymore. Before we broke up she said she was 110% sure we would go back out again (this has happened about 3 times now)Well I don't know what to do or say to her anymore because I still like her to, andI really don't want her to forget her feelings for me. What do I do?

adviceishere · May 11, 2011, 03:00 AM

This girl is making a fool out of you sadly. You should cut contact and move on. She wants it all, she's keeping you in her life and stringing you along so that if things go wrong with this other guy she can have you back.

Do you really want to be second best? Do you really think you deserve this kind of treatment? No you don't! You deserve better, you deserve a woman that will have you as her number one and doesn't drop you when someone better comes along.

End it now and don't let her get in your head. Don't believe what she tells you, she is using you and keeping you from possibly meeting a nicer, less selfish girl. Take control, ignore her and don't be her fool!

ken007nielsen · May 11, 2011, 03:08 PM

Is it enjoyable being her second choice?

I mean she left you because she found someone better, and is stringing you along as a safety cushion.
You can't honestly tell me that, that feels good?

HistorianChick · May 12, 2011, 07:40 AM

You ask "what do I do?"... you move on. She is playing a game with your heart and shouldn't be allowed to control your emotions like that.

She's a player. She told you that you'd get back together. Basically, she's telling you that you have no will of your own, no choice in the matter, no decision making power, no backbone. She is assuming that you will always be there for her, no matter what she does. That when she has enough of the other guy, feels bored, or just wants to go back to what she knows, that you will take her back. That's horrible.

You need to decide that you're worth more than second best. That you are not her option anymore.

spitvenom · May 12, 2011, 07:47 AM

DUDE you are her safety net. MAN UP AND MOVE ON!!

mmresd · May 12, 2011, 10:21 AM

Harshness Alert:

What feelings are you afraid of her losing for you? The feeling of having a dog following her every move and reacting the way she wants you to every time she wants you to? Please man, have some self respect and send her packing. You are obviously the bench warmer here, she is ****!ng other guys and you are sitting there waiting for her return, send her home and be with someone who isn't going to be playing you for a FOOL. Sorry for the harsh words, but man do you need them, STOP her bull$hit and don't allow her to play you any further, tell her things are over and then go No Contact. Break up sucks, but putting a female on a pedestal and allowing her to whip you in this manner is shameful.

Good Luck,
Javi

gamefreak2012 · Apr 2, 2012, 03:52 AM

Dude I'm having the same problem right now and I know what it feels like. I loved my girl friend but now she broke up with me for a 13 year old. She's only 11! I'm like 2 months younger than her. She still tries to talk to me but I ignore her, but I also want her back. I canot think of what to do. I stayed up all night crying. It sucks.but if anyone has any advice for me tell me before its to late.