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Unrequitedlove · May 2, 2011, 05:43 AM

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I have been hanging out with this girl for a few months and we seem to hit it off. She tells me I'm awesome and fun. She's always playfully hitting or tickling me and usually is very huggy with me.

I have heard from friends that she doesn't want a relationship with anyone and I think ( but I'm not sure) she just doesn't want to be hurt again. I know she had a boyfriend about a year ago but I don't know if he hurt her. Should I find out from her or her friends what happened between them or if there's any other reason she doesn't want a relationship. Will she come around (she acts like she really likes me) or should I move on? I have never met a girl that took up every second of my thoughts.

FYI she hasn't told me she doesn't want a relationship it's just what I've heard from her friends and we have only hung out as friends.

ken007nielsen · May 2, 2011, 05:50 AM

Well if SHE hasent told you anything about relationship, then you don't know what she want's.

If you like her, you ask her what you want to know.

Cat1864 · May 2, 2011, 05:58 AM

Why not ask her out and see what she says? Don't ask about the past. If she shares it with you great, but asking her to go out as a couple is a yes or no question. It isn't a declaration of intentions.

Try an actual date before you start thinking about a romantic relationship. You might find that being friends is better than trying to be partners.

confussed_man · May 2, 2011, 09:44 AM

I'd say just tell her you like her, and see what she does. If she wants a relationship great if not, you tried. If she does like you she'll stop flirting with the other guys. But I think she's just being friendly or like flirting as she's flirting with other guys.

amicon · May 2, 2011, 10:36 AM

She's the only one who can tell you how she feels.

How old are you?

talaniman · May 2, 2011, 11:51 AM

Ask her out and see! That's the only way to get the facts, and not presume, or assume, or get carried away by a friendly flirty female.

If she says yes, have fun, if she says no, be friendly. You said she is this way with all the guys so take a chance and find out things for yourself. Best to keep everyone else OUT of your business.