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    #21

    Jul 29, 2011, 03:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    She is happy and is ready to be friends, and thinks you are ready for what she wants. Treat this as you would any other spam, and why haven't you already blocked her? Then you wouldn't be wondering what she wants, you would be doing your own thing, and the hell with her. And before you wonder where this question went, its in the process of being merged with your other one.

    So know that your lack of action at NOT deleting her, and preventing her screwing with you with her BS, has come back to bite you in the butt. Correct that ASAP!!!
    To add to what Tal said, how did she re-friend you on FaceBook without your permission? Take responsibility for adding to your own confusion and for ending it. De-friend her again and get back on the road to recovery.
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    #22

    Aug 8, 2011, 02:23 AM
    Ok. Here is my update.

    Shamefully I ignored all your advice to ignore her. I couldn't. It's so difficult when someone you care for and miss wants to talk.

    The last few weeks we have spoke everyday for between 1 and 2 hours. She wants to get back together. She wants to come back in 3 months and be with me. She said she has realised how much I mean to her and how much of a mistake she made leaving me.

    I still like her but I can't help feeling that it will be a mistake getting back with her. I don't want to compromise my plans but at the same time I still want her.
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    #23

    Aug 8, 2011, 03:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mrmineral View Post
    First of all she emails to see how I am and drops in that she has a new boyfriend.
    What happened to him?
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    #24

    Aug 8, 2011, 04:59 AM

    Do you seriously want her back, toying with your emotions?

    You dodged a bullet-leave her in the past and cut all contact!
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    Aug 8, 2011, 05:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mrmineral View Post

    I still like her but I can't help feeling that it will be a mistake getting back with her. I don't want to compromise my plans but at the same time I still want her.
    I know this feeling but sometimes we have to use our head instead of our heart.
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    #26

    Nov 26, 2011, 09:43 PM
    Think long and hard about the fact she left you once, she may have made a mistake and for your sake I hope that's the case. Your story had a lot to say about what she wanted but little about what you/we as a couple want. I hope that changes when she returns. Good Luck
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