Appropriate dress to go out for dinner with a guy "friend" if you have a boyfriend
Hi. My girlfriend went out to dinner with a guy friend of hers last night that is only in town for a couple of days. When she returned home, she was wearing a dress that came about half way down her thighs, and knee high boots. She and her friend went to an Italian restaurant. I felt it was inappropriate and called her out on it. She is now super livid with me, saying she's going to move out, that I don't trust her, that I'm controlling, etc. I do trust her, but I think that she should dress a little more modest if she is going to go out for dinner with another guy. After all, I am her boyfriend, and I would like to think she would dress that way for me, but not for someone who she says is just a friend. She said she was in a hurry, that she always dresses that way, and she felt comfortable in it. Are these valid excuses? I told her I wouldn't go out with a girl that was a friend and dress to impress. Matter of fact, I wouldn't go out with a girl at all unless she was there. Did I have a right to call her out on it or did I over react? I'm 31 and she is 25. Thanks!
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