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    dormant123 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 19, 2011, 09:32 PM
    This may seem a little obvious. (I over think relationships)
    A girl that I have know for 2 years and have liked for 3 months has been giving me mixed signals. She goes up and talks to me (the other two guys that like her go up to her to talk) but she hardly answers my texts... The other day on the bus (we were the last kids on the bus for once) she said she wanted to ask me something but she said she was a little afraid to ask. I urged her to go on and she asked if I had a girlfriend and I said no. She then asked if I wanted one and I said yes. Then she asked who I liked and I said that's personal. (I think I blew it there) then she asked if the girl I liked was "pretty". I said yes, and she vowed to find out who it was. Did she basically tell me she liked me or something completely different. And do you think there's anyway to salvage this problem If I made a mistake somewhere (just in case)
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    Apr 19, 2011, 10:08 PM
    Why you are thinking so much when you love that gal.. If you love her,ask her.. She knows you from 2 years.If she likes you she will say yes.. If u want anything then you have to start it.. First ask yourself what you want and then follow your heart..
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    Apr 19, 2011, 11:11 PM

    How old are you,please?
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    Apr 20, 2011, 04:27 AM

    I don't know if this is the same girl in your other posts but its obvious you have a crush, and you should just talk to her and see where it goes.
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    Apr 20, 2011, 08:19 PM
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    Apr 20, 2011, 09:29 PM

    First you need to learn how to communicate.
    Just talk to her and see where it goes.
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    Apr 22, 2011, 01:23 PM
    Just go up and talk to her, if she says yes then you just got a girlfriend. If she says no then you are right where you are now, which means that you didn't lose anything.

    Good luck,
    Javi
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    Apr 24, 2011, 02:49 PM
    I agree with mmresd

    By not asking her out you may loose the chance of going out with an amazing girl.

    If you ask her and she says yess, you have got her

    If you ask her and she says no than it will be a little bit awkward for a couple of days that's it.

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