[lena111]

I'm a 15 year old in high school and I really like this guy but my friends would never approve. He's kind of a "bad boy" at my school, but once you get to know him he's a really good guy. I just wish he could start making better decisions. How can I start easing my friends into liking him? Because he really likes me too and I really want to date him. PLEASE HELP!

[amicon]

If he's making bad decisions,you can't change him;and what happens if you start making 'bad decisions'too?

I think your friends may have a valid point.

[southamerica]

I'm inclined to agree with amicon, but I want to ask first: what "bad decisions" is he making?

[talaniman]

ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to amicon again.

Bad boys are attractive butt if you get with one, that could be a very bad decision too!

Unless you are a bad girl, leave them alone.

[ITstudent2006]

There's really two issues here.

1) You caring too much what others think.

2) Possibly heading down a "bad" path by involving yourself with this guy.

While I agree with the above posters about being careful not to subject your life to the influence of bad decisions, can you really let others make decisions for you? This is one of those situations I would hate to be in because it looks like a lose-lose.

This is all in assumption that when you say "bad" you really mean "bad"!

Please clarify and we can better assist you!