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    lalamorris77 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 15, 2011, 12:23 PM
    I think my parents are having a divorce
    Hi my name is Olivia sorry if I miss spell words.

    My parents are fight every night and at night my mom sleeps on the couch and my dad sleeps on the bed. They been fighting about that my dad always promises but never keeps them, and always says sorry. Last night we bought flowers, and in the morning my mom said I don't care take them back... my mom tells me that she want a divorce and my dad says to me she needs to grow up and if she want one than it can happen.

    The dad that I'm talking about is my step dad and I don't want to loose him I love him. My dad dad I see him every sat. and I don't want to have 2 dads...

    I feel that my mom is the one who doesn't want to change and she always says she going to leave or say I'm going to have a divorce.

    Please help sometimes I wish I never had a mom like her
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    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
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    Apr 15, 2011, 03:37 PM

    I'm confused. You don't want to have two Dads but it appears that you already do - ?

    These are adult problems. Adults should keep you out of them.

    You can't change them. You CAN change you. Is there an adult you can talk to, someone you trust?

    You're being put in the middle and that's just not fair.
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    Apr 15, 2011, 06:50 PM

    All you can do is love all the adults in your life, and perhaps tell them not to drag you in the middle of it.

    Couples fight, many sleep on the couch and in a few months things work out. And some do divorce, it is obvious your mom has been divorced before ( from your dad)

    Best to stay out of it as much as possilbe and let them know you love them both and do not need to be put in the middle
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