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    Apr 11, 2011, 08:11 PM
    I love my woman with all my heart but I don't have any desire for her after 7 years
    ... and it is NOT because she put on some weight - she looks great. She has good vibes, is positive, etc. We get along great too. The desire just faded away and now I feel desire for OTHER women, but not mine... but I love her truly genuinely... anyone else in this weird situation? Words of advice?
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    Apr 11, 2011, 08:54 PM

    How old are you? Have you talked to her about this?
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    Apr 13, 2011, 03:18 AM
    Yeah I think you should talk to her about this.but put it nicely, women are sensitive even if they don't show it, expect her to be disappointed and angry. Maybe brighten up your daily routine, go back to being younger, back when you first met her, when you first met her. And don't be scared that your feeling are disappearing, they are just resting, it will come back sooner or later...
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    Apr 13, 2011, 01:35 PM

    Maybe you just got a little too comfortable, more like 'best-buddy' feelings than sexual attraction. Fallen into a bit of a routine, do most things together?
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    Apr 13, 2011, 01:43 PM

    How old are you? How old is she?
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    Apr 14, 2011, 10:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kusumo65 View Post
    yeah i think you should talk to her about this.but put it nicely, women are sensitive even if they don't show it, expect her to be disappointed and angry. maybe brighten up your daily routine, go back to being younger, back when you first met her, when you first met her. and don't be scared that your feeling are disappearing, they are just resting, it will come back sooner or later...

    Women are not the only sensitive species. Tell a man you're not satisfied or you've lost desire and see what you get -

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