[JoeGuido03]

Hi. I'm starting to explore my sexuality. I'm 15, just started dating a girl, so anyone who thought I was gay, has now been.proven wrong. But I am a closeted bi. I want to know how I can get a straight guy to like me, or pay specific attention to me in a positive and sexual way. Any tips or stories? Please don't tell me to respect their sexuality. What should I do to get the guy to notice me? THANKS.

[justv]

Darlin' do you even have long hairs on your legs yet? How about facial hair? Are you really 15 or maybe 14? And if everyone thinks you are gay, how COULD you indeed attract a straight guy? When you say explore, did dating a girl begin your sexual exploration? No really, I'm sorry, something tells me that you are not bi. In reality, your sexual reputation bothers you. I'm no expert but I sense you are not sexually mature enough, even a nano, to know what you are or want. Geez I feel sorry for the girl because surely you are using her as a cover. I don't think you want JUST ANY straight guy, you already know who you want. Dontcha? However, how other people perceive you, either bothers you because you're afraid it will turn him off or you're afraid you are gay and cannot

Sorry, I have hit a wrong key. I will finish separately.

JustV

[Cat1864]

You are currently dating a girl and you want to know how to get a male to notice you. You Don't.

Being bi does not give you an excuse to cheat on your girl/boyfriend. If you have feelings for someone else, you get out of the relationship you are in, make certain you aren't holding on to any negative thoughts or feelings, and then you can think about asking someone else out.

Sorry, but you do respect their sexuality as you would want them to respect yours. If you can't respect another person's right to be his/herself, then why should you have the right to be yourself?

Get involved in activities that you enjoy. Meet people and make friends. Learn how to communicate with others as people and not their gender or sexuality. Learn how to be comfortable with the person you are it will build a self-confidence that will stay with you as relationships come and go.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking with your hormones.

If you are proving your sexuality with sex, stop before you make a life changing mistake in a very adult situation. If you are going to tell me that you are using protection, be aware that NO form of birth control is 100% effective (except full removal of reproductive organs.) Several of our members have gotten pregnant while correctly using birth control.

[littlemissmiss7]

Well, from my expirience, It's hard to get a straight guy to like a bi guy. Straight guys like being straight and won't let themselves be strayed because they are afraid that they will be made fun of. I think you should look more for guys you know can either be strayed or are exploring THEIR sexuallity. If you really want to try find a bi guy, try looking for LGBT help sites about dating and maybe even a LGBT teen dating site.
Hope that helped :)

[jonalu]

Hunny you prove yourself wrong you have a girlfriend but you want a straught guy to have sex with you... GAY I'm gay so I know your freakin gay too kid

[steph25]

U gay,accept it

[cocogir123]

If he's straight then he likes girls and only girls. There are gay guys who are just as great (if not better) than straight guys so go for them ( besides you'll have a better chance with gay guys). ON THE OTHER HAND, you have a girlfriend so stay faithful or become single.