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Yuudoku · Mar 3, 2011, 06:40 AM

I'm 15.. and I like this girl... she's my seat mate for like 3 years... and we were close friends... I always ask her advices on what to do when I was asking for forgiveness to this other girl... okay lets put names on the characters... lets say I'm ME.. and the one I love is HER and the other girl is SHE...

I'm going to narrate this problem of mine..

Me loves HER
But ME had a fight with SHE and ME wants to forgive SHE...
Because SHE liked ME and ME admitted that ME used SHE to get near HER
So ME used LOVE as a way to get FORGIVENESS from SHE
So during that time ME always asks HER for advices... about SHE..
So ME was forgiven...

And now... ME admits to HER that ME loves HER
HER doesn't believe it at first.. but when ME explained it all..
HER believes... BUT THE PROBLEM IS... ME never knew that HER has a boyfriend!
So ME didn't court her...
ME is afraid to show his feelings to her..
ME IS SCARED OF REJECTION... ME is so.. sad..

ME knows its not good to enter others privacy... but ME can't control what he feels.. ME loves HER so much... ME will give everything for her... ME cares so much.. so much that ME and HER fought over it because HER wanted to not to change the way they treat each other
ME apologized this Valentines day and gave HER valentines gifts...
ME didn't lose hope... ME still loves HER...

But when ME listens to how HER loves her boyfriend.. ME just gets...
Pain in the inside.. ME's friends wants ME to stop!
But ME is hard headed and doesn't lose hope! ME is thinking twice though.. of what to do!
ME just loves HER too much...

I need help on what to do... 2 weeks left and its summer... I won't be seeing her for 3 months.. but I plan on giving her a birthday gift on her birthday.. and a farewell gift too... they're not exactly "Gifts" but their like.. some sort of something memorable..

So the questions..

WILL I CONTINUE?
WHAT MUST I DO THEN?
WHAT TO GIVE AS A FAREWELL GIFT?
WHAT TO GIVE ON HER Birthday ?
HOW NOT TO BE SHY AND INSECURE ABOUT HER'S BF -.-?

adviceishere · Mar 3, 2011, 09:40 AM

ME, HER and SHE did not make this any easier to understand just a hell of a lot more confusing! I thought you might of given them real "fake" names if you get me. Anyway from what I gathered, this girl is taken so leave her alone!

Yuudoku · Mar 4, 2011, 04:33 AM

Aw what an advice...

adviceishere · Mar 4, 2011, 07:19 AM

Kid what do you want people to tell you? To go after someone elses' girlfriend and maybe get yourself into all kinds of trouble by doing so? Your walking on dangerous grounds by sending this girl gifts and when or if her boyfriend finds out you WILL get into trouble. If you had a girlfriend would you want some boy sending her gifts all the time and confessing their love to her? My guess is no you wouldn't like it one bit.
So leave her alone until or if she's ever available to date others. And if you don't like my advice then ask someone to lie to you, but everyone on this (unless they're lying) will tell you exactly what I've told you

jamba · Mar 4, 2011, 08:11 AM

If you want to give her gifts, I think it's okey. But maybe your friendships will be last, she will make distance with you. You know girl will have a guilty feeling if you do that, she cannot pretend if there is nothing between you, but it will be memorable things for her, as you wish, don't know it's a good or bad think.
You should find a new love, you are still 15.