[crazygrl505]

Last year my best friends (lets call her bell) told me some lies about herself we worked things out and went to guidance at school. When I asked her if she considered me to be her friend she got mad at me and said don't ask me those kinds of questions. Today I got a phone call from my 2 other best friends and they told me that bell said that I'm too close to her and she doesn't like it. Now I don't know how I'm too close to her cause she won't tell me anything about her life I don't tell her I love you like my other friends tell me and she won't even let me go in 10 ft of her if I want to talk I have to stand far back. My friends say bell still wants to be my friend and I'm tryn to be nice and accept bell but I don't know how to talk to her about the situation I have have school tomorrow with her and I don't want to go cause of what my other friends told me I feel like she hurt me for the second time after lyn bad to me and I need help.
~thanks~ confused

[elrp2]

Just give her some space for a while. Like the saying goes... "absense makes the heart stronger", so just give her some time to herself then she should come round and realise how much she misses you.

If she is still acting like this in a few days confront her. Make sure it's only you two and talk it through. Don't get into an argument or anything, just tell her what you posted on here.

I hope everything works out for you.

[EVS]

Hi There

As was stated before give yourself some space.

People are actually three separate beings like so:

1 The person they do not want people to think they are.
To the person they would like people to think they are.
3 Themselves

You have to catagorise your friend into one of these fields and try to help them be THEMSELVES

Regards
Peanuts