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    melaniel0pez Posts: 3, Reputation: 2
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    Feb 12, 2011, 06:18 PM
    How do I learn to fight someone back if I've never been in a fight?
    Well a girl's boyfriend flirts with me a little and it pisses her off. So to get attention she says I'm trying to steal him from her (how pathetic, right?) at first I ignored her b.s. but when she started putting my friends against me she crossed the line. She keeps saying she will knock me out but I'm waiting... I just want to prove to her that if she really wants to fight with me to I won't try backing off. If I had to I would but I hear that her friends will jump me. She knows she won't try to hit me to make me look like the jerk and her being the innocent one. Thanks to her I'm left with TWO TRUE friends because all of my old "friends" backed away and went on her side. Don't try saying to "ignor her" because no matter how hard I try she won't leave me alone
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    Feb 12, 2011, 06:48 PM
    Words, use clever words.
    Tell her that any woman who has to beat up her sisters because her man is flirting, (and if he's flirting with you, ask her, isn't he probably flirting with others, and if she beats you up, is she going to beat up the next one and the one after that?), is aiming in the wrong direction. If she has to beat up someone, it should be HIM.
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    Feb 12, 2011, 06:51 PM

    How old are you Melanie?
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    Feb 12, 2011, 07:33 PM

    Fighting over what someone says, is very immature, next her actions show her as childish, but yours does not show much better.

    First if you are not trained to fight, you are not going to learn over night, What you do learn in any school that teaches self defense or fighting is that the best fight is one you don't fight.
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    Apr 25, 2012, 05:02 PM
    She is bluffing you, next time she starts this, grab her by the hair of the head and punch her in the face with everything you got. That'll teach er not to start drama anymore!

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