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    sezmepanda Posts: 24, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 1, 2011, 06:21 PM
    Am I wasting my time on him?
    So there is this guy I really like. He's perfect for me. He reaches all my standards. We literally talk all day & everyday. Every morning I wake up and we text all day through school and then talk for hours on Facebook then back to texting until one of us falls asleep.. and then the cycle continues. But then recently, he told me he wanted to talk to this specific girl, and he told me her name and unfortunately that girl wasn't me. I was crushed, but I told him good luck.. I didn't want to seem jealous. I really think he has a thing for me, but I'm not sure. I've tried asking him how he feels but he always finds a way to avoid the q, and then I decide to just leave it alone because I don't want to annoy him. But my Q is, do you think I'm wasting my time on him? Should I just move on? I'm confused. Help?
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    Feb 1, 2011, 09:11 PM

    Move on, your text buddy is interested in some one else. Sorry, I know you are disappointed.
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    Feb 1, 2011, 10:32 PM
    I think you should move on focus on someone else. It doesn't sound positive at all. You'll be glad you did once you meet someone else!
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    Feb 2, 2011, 03:46 PM
    Well he might be interested in you or he might not. I think you need to test him. Maybe if he sees you interested in someone else he might wake up and show you how he feels. But if you show him that you are interested in some other guy and he still acts like just a friend then he does not have feeling for you and you should move on and forget about him.
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    Feb 2, 2011, 04:57 PM

    Is this the bisexual guy you were dating or someone else?
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    Feb 2, 2011, 05:37 PM

    I would be very insulted if I were you, all that time talking and texting, and he just out of the blue tells you he likes someone else. Yes you are wasting your time. Move on. He wants to play the field. You deserve better.
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    Feb 2, 2011, 05:45 PM
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    Someone else.

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