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    Jan 24, 2011, 08:38 PM
    How do you handle your husband maybe having a baby by another woman?
    About two years ago my brother in law and husband goes out to a christmas party (they are identical twins) later that night my husband get sick and end up in the hospital the next year my brother in law tells me that he has a son and he need me to babysit for him while he works so being the nice person I am I babysit for free even gave him my daughters playpin clothes and etc because the baby didn't have anything to sleep in or pajamas a few months later my brother in law gets a new girlfriend then I start hearing that the baby is really my husband on since then his family been telling me so many stories from it was a game, they drugd him, they drugd him and the girl, him and the girl had something going on but it isn't mean nothing so when I asked him he said he don't remember much from that night and he's been saying that since day 1 and a week ago I asked the woman about it at first she acted like she isn't know what I was talking about then when I started laying stuff fout to her then she want to hit me with I'm not trying to break up your marriage but I think its time you should know your husband is the father of my baby... the baby a be 2 in October and she just now saying something I really don't understand this it doesn't make any sense to me she's 27 and I'm 19 I'm carrying his 2nd child I want to stay and make it work with him but I'm hurt deeply he want to get a dna test and I agree I want him to get one on the inside I want to leave but I also want to stay
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    Jan 24, 2011, 08:59 PM

    So you have no idea if it is his or not, it was brother in laws, but now "they" are telling you one thing, and you just believe it.

    So you are upset about something you don't even have facts onl

    So everyone wants a DNA test, so get one.
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    Jan 24, 2011, 09:08 PM

    If the two men are identical twins, they share the same DNA.
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    Jan 24, 2011, 09:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    If the two men are identical twins, they share the same DNA.
    Ah, but the DNA tests these days will tell a difference.
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    Jan 24, 2011, 09:35 PM

    Ah, tell me more! (I wondered if they were sophisticated enough.)
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    Jan 24, 2011, 09:55 PM

    Yes, but they may need both men to take the test to be 100 percent sure
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    Jan 24, 2011, 09:55 PM
    Go on maury!
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    Jan 25, 2011, 04:08 PM
    Once a cheat always a cheat... "doesn't remember", Good one! Neither did my ex! Get your head out of the sand and lock that baby store up!
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